In a move that has both surprised and inspired many, Chidimma Adetshina, the stunning 23-year-old crowned Miss Universe Nigeria, recently decided to part ways with her X (formerly Twitter) account, all in the name of preserving her sanity. Yes, you heard that right—she said goodbye to the digital chaos that often comes hand-in-hand with social media fame. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by the relentless waves of online opinions, judgment, and sometimes, downright nastiness, then you might understand why.
Chidimma’s quest for sanity follows her bold appearance in the Miss South Africa contest, where she didn’t exactly have a warm welcome. In fact, the backlash was so heated that it made the spicy food in a local eatery look like baby food. Among the critiques was a very public allegation from the South Africa Department of Home Affairs (DHA), which hinted that her mother may have been involved in some less-than-savory activities, like fraud and identity theft. Remember, folks, just because you have a crown doesn’t mean you want to have your name dragged through the mud.
In a candid interview with Arise 360, Chidimma revealed the challenges of always being under public scrutiny. With a hint of vulnerability, she explained that the tidal wave of negativity on social media became unbearable. “I had to delete it because I felt like it was too much for me. I’m a comment reader, so I read each and every comment; that’s the thing. I could spend 80% of my day reading comments,” she shared, as if confessing to a guilty pleasure that just turned sour.
Who would’ve thought that scrolling through tweets could be akin to binge-watching a train wreck? Yet, that’s precisely how it felt for Chidimma. She realized that social media, often touted as a tool for connection and empowerment, had morphed into a toxic pit for her. “I’d read the comments and all, and it became toxic for me. I use Instagram, but I did limit my comment section one time,” she added, echoing the sentiments of many who have encountered the double-edged sword of social media engagement.
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Let’s face it—nobody signs up for a beauty pageant expecting to read headlines and comments that rival the catchiest gossip columns for their drama. One minute, you’re prepping your evening gown; the next, you’re dodging cruel jabs and unsolicited advice from keyboard warriors who think they could do a better job with zero training and a half-eaten bag of chips.
To add a sprinkle of humor to the mix, can we take a moment to appreciate how these social media platforms somehow unlock the inner critic in everyone? It’s like a magic trick where everyone suddenly turns into a certified psychologist, art critic, and fashionista all at once, armed with nothing but a keyboard and a zeal to critique every outfit, every word, and even the most innocent of selfies. Chidimma’s ordeal underscores this reality, where genuine expressions of self can be overshadowed by relentless waves of judgment.
But it isn’t all doom and gloom for our beauty queen. Chidimma took a moment to express her gratitude for the positivity she has received. “I want to say a huge thank you to my fans for their support. It means the world to me!” And that, dear readers, is a much-needed reminder that amid the noise, there are indeed voices that cheer us on, encouraging us to embrace our unique selves and rise above the fray.
So, what can we learn from Chidimma’s experience? First and foremost, mental health should always be a priority. Understanding when to step back from the constant barrage of public opinion is crucial for anyone navigating the often turbulent waters of fame—or even just social media as a whole. It’s a call to all of us to take a good hard look at our screen time and perhaps reconsider how we engage with these platforms.
Moreover, Chidimma’s decision might resonate with those who find themselves drained by as little as a single tweet. Taking a break or even quitting altogether can be the biggest act of self-care, especially in an environment that can easily distort reality. In a world where sharing every thought seems to be the norm, it’s refreshing to see someone say, “Enough is enough!”
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In the age of social media, we often forget that behind the glitz and glam, there are real people with real emotions. Chidimma Adetshina’s story serves as a gentle reminder that celebrities, beauty queens, and anyone in the public eye are still human. They experience stress, anxiety, and doubt just like the rest of us. And if it means deleting an app to keep that sanity intact, then maybe we should all consider taking a page—or a post—out of her book.
So, here’s to Chidimma, a queen not only for her beauty but for her bravery in the face of a relentless digital whirlwind. It’s okay to unplug, to silence the noise, and to live life outside the screen. And maybe, just maybe, we’ll all learn to prioritize our mental health in this hyper-connected world, one deleted tweet at a time.